TL;DR - I want you to love me before we fuck.

About me:

32 (Turning 33 this December)

Working professional - IT QA

Atheist

Cynical

Clean - no STI's

5'8

Fair brown skin (Mixed Pinoy - Tisoy)

Dark brown eyes

Shoulder length wavy hair

Relatively smooth - almost no body hair

Goes to the gym at least 6/7 days a week

Love Starved and a Hopeless Romantic

I hope to find someone to hang out with instead of installing bumble. Too many failed dates and ghosts in my inbox there.

I'm hoping for a genuine connection that would blossom into something real. More than willing to relocate if given the opportunity. Sexually speaking, I'm a bottom, and I have not been that sexually active for the past decade. Hopefully you would be more top, although experiments are welcome as long as the love is there. My type is my height or taller, hairy and muscular/dad bod guys, femme or masc - doesn't really matter. I just hope you're tired of the date collection scene, are a loyal lover who would never cheat, and are just wanting to settle down with the right person.

My hopes aren't that high in finding someone on here to be frank, but there's this little voice at the back of my head telling me that I should give it another shot. I've met a lot of cool people on here but potential relationships never prospered.

I don't want to go about swiping on Bumble and Tinder again, and I don't want casual, emotionless sex from Grindr. I want to be loved first before I get my ass destroyed. I'm not that sexually frustrated since I have my hands and my toy, but a warm, caring body can't be beat. I'd like to chat with you and build something up now so that when we do meet, it would be magical (there's that annoying hopeful voice in my head again). Hopefully, you, Mr. Right, are reading this. I've been lied to, taken advantage of, and cheated on so much in the past, so I hope you won't do that to me. I want my world view to become optimistic and cheerful. I want to believe in love again instead of fantasizing of it in my head. I want to be yours and I want you to be mine for as long as I live.