I keep telling myself that I'm not ready for a relationship, because I have to fix xyz about myself before a guy should even consider me. But I've come across this tiktok (HAHAHA) that talked about how it's not about about fixing what's wrong with me, it's about finding someone patient with my flaws, someone whose willing to grow with me. So this is me, taking a shot in the dark, hoping to find someone who will take me as I am.

I've been craving having that go to person in my life when it comes to everything, and the comfort, warmth and safety that comes with a relationship. I think I have a lot of love to give.

Realistically, we probably wont be able to meet because of some circumstances and I can't travel yet. But the goal is to eventually meet up often of course. I don't mind long distance or purely online for awhile, as long as the love and companionship is there. I understand if it's a deal breaker since most here are looking for meetups.

Mainly looking to talk in the hopes of developing a LTR with someone but open to making new friends too!

About me:

• 4th year university student taking CS, busy a lot but will make time for you. Maybe we can co work/study together on Discord eventually?

• Masc soft boy

• 5'4", fair skinned with glasses, on the chubby side, I look young for my age. Not sure about my tbv yet as I've only done side stuff so far. Been called cute, but I'd say I'm cute in a 'baby boy' way.

• Still closeted to fam but will come out some day

• Don't know my tbv yet because I've only done side so far, but want to explore and willing.

• Big gamer, right now my Nintendo Switch is a Zelda TOTK machine. I play on PS5 too. I have a very diverse taste in games. Some favs are Bloodborne, Stardew Valley, and Mario. Most anticipated games are Elden Ring DLC, and Hollow Knight Silksong. Maybe we can play something together?

• Introvert, homebody and shy type (kinda awkward) but I try my best in conversing, I give off an innocent vibe.

• Books! Usually, I like to read fiction, but I don't have brain cells for reading for fun during the term. Some of my fav books: Way Of Kings, Flowers for Algernon, A Little Life

• Music is a big deal for me, I like anything that just emotionally speaks to me. Indie rock, emo, pop, folk. Some fav artists: Car Seat Headrest, Taylor Swift, Phoebe Bridgers, Lana Del Ray, The Strokes

• Into movies, series, anime, I'm open to a lot of things when it comes to stuff to watch. Fav movie of all time: Everything, Everywhere All At Once. Some recent favs: Dune 2 and Past Lives.

About you: have some common interests, not an 88M Apologist, emotionally available

I know that mutual physical attraction is important. I'm typically more (historically) into average to chubby guys with stocky builds. Willing to exchange pics early, and I won't take it personally if you pass !

Hit me up with an intro with things about yourself if you are interested :> let's get to know each other