I feel like i wasted this year’s valentines by not having a man to celebrate it with (though platonic celebrations are valid! Just my viewpoint) so im kinda hoping next years valentines would be a bit more different. Looking for a guy i can connect with, and maybe determine if we’re a good match for each other after going on several dates and meetups.

About me: - 21 male

• side/bottom for compatibility

• tisoy, conventionally attractive pag nag ayos, I also wear glasses which is apparently something people here are attracted to.

• 5’3”

• nerdy. I like to watch anime, spend my time just going down wikipedia rabbit holes and collecting random bits of trivia along the way (im great at trivia nights for this reason), listen almost exclusively to classical music, and i play chess. Im also very much into making art and things that involve working with my hands. I make all sorts of art (did art comms for a very short while) and i cook really well.

• nbsb. Im introverted and gay, if i werent actively looking for guys, im pretty sure im going to end up dying never having a boyfriend 💀

• too masc for fem chasers, too fem for masc4mascs. I probably fit the bill for discreet or masc generally but im still passing on you if you’re masc4masc sorry. Just a preference.

• i have a job so im financially stable. While id love to have my meals paid for on dates (who doesnt love free shit? Lol) i can pay for my stuff. The bigger hurdle to going on dates with me is arranging schedules for it. I go to work on weekdays and available ish on weekends, with the latters reason being that im used to being a recluse on weekends. I use it to recharge my social battery since i have to make small talk with strangers all day at work.

• intp / leo. They’re not very scientifically sound but i think they coincidentally describe my personality well enough. Obviously im more than just some checklist of archetypes but yeah.

• progressive. I think my politics are in check naman. I was a kakampink and i support lgbt rights (plenty of transphobic gays out there and i dont want to be mistaken for that) and im a feminist. Also an agnostic.

• Secure attachment type, well, trying atleast. I have to admit, i still have my moments of being an anxious attachment type, but i think im pretty realistic about my expectations for the most part.

• im monogamous. No open rel or poly

About you: - Any age wag lang minor

• side/versa/vtop. I can be open to pure tops too but i find too many of them to be selfish in bed and have a weird aversion to dick. If you’re a top and that doesnt describe you hmu!

• attractive. Not asking for a model nor an actor (not accepting love team roles but i can be your non showbiz bf 😘) but yeah i have a preference for guys who are pogi. Brave i know lol.

• please be taller than me

• please be around Metro Manila and rizal. Really not a fan of long distance.

• be financially stable as well, ideally. Im not gonna expect you to go pay for all my crap i just dont want this to get in the way. We dont have to eat at wolfgang everytime we go out, we can eat there every other week char. Seriously though if you’re not having me pay for everything, and not out of your pride, i think you’re financially stable.

• please be progressive as well. Its 2024.

• please be emotionally available. Not really a fan of the whole nonchalant na masungit thing which some gays love to fetishize and larp as for some reason.

• monogamous. No poly or open rel either.

If you think you fit all the above and are interested, hmu in the dms! Also open the chat with “labyrinthuser” if youve made it this far.