Helloo. Are there fellow medstudents here that are willing to explore with me?

I’ll make this post very transparent so as to attract the same. Bale isa ako dun sa mga subsob sa pag-aaral since elem until college until now that i’m in med school. Scholar kasi ako since before, didn’t really have the time for anything else other than making sure my grades are high to ensure lower fees in school. As a result, I haven’t had past relationships; I haven’t tried momol, bars, much less actually engaging in any intimate act. And right now that I’m already at this age and med school is really killing me and how I see lots of friends advance their “adventure” I sort of started to feel left out that I have not even tried any of this? Na-realize ko kasi na my life would only get busier and busier, and I’m pretty sure I’m not the only one that feels this way so here I am. I did have an attempt to open up about this to some random strangers here in reddit but most of them are already working and have more flexible schedules than I do lol… So i really felt like it would be unfair for them kung sakali and perhaps it would be better if tulad kong med student na in a month, baka isang araw lang libre ganun HAHA

I still consider myself straight but I really am curious abt the same sex also so I’m putting this for all na tag, whoever na lang magrep sa post na to. So kung sakali, I’ll state it outright here agad na this wont go “all the way” and would simply be more of a slow and gradual exploration. No pressure whatsoever to engage in hardcore activities (i.e. penetration)

Abt me:

- 25/M

- 5’6

- Fair skin, average slim bod (i dont work out, dont have time HAHA)

- Chinito (fil-chi)

- Deemed good looking by classmates (mostly lantad na gays nagkakagusto sakin, idk what to make of that tho)

- Scholar med student and an academic achiever, from big 4

- Acads-before-relationship kind of person but very curious

- INFJ personality (rly shy but very outspoken when you get to know me)

- Friends rate me as 10/10 as a friend lol, can carry convos also

- Clean/safe (as i said, no past jowa and exp talaga)

- Open-minded

- Values confidentiality so whatever we discover in this exploration will surely be safe

- Into deep conversations pero g rin sa light talks basta barred muna all med talks HAHA

Abt you:

- Preferable age: 23-26

- Confident with looks also

- Also in the medical field (med students to the front pls), also from big 4

- Acads first also na tao and tulad ko na just wanna explore

- Preferably ENFJ. INFJ also (or basta N and F HAHAH)

- NON-NEGOTIABLE: Clean, safe, AND no past experiences whatsoever (i.e. no jowa, no hookups, no sexual encounters before. Pls respect my preference for no exp talaga ty!)

- Also open-minded and generally a good sense of character lang

What you may expect:

- Unang-una: expect na i also dont know what we’ll do HAHA, so expect this to be lax since we both exploring. But, personally, I would wanna experience most intimate activities like making out and the oral deeds

- There will be no trespassing of boundaries; everything we’ll engage in will be consented upon by all parties and that all will feel good after lol

- Being med students, we’ll be totally responsible for being clean and accountable for each other. No to STDs syempre

- There will be no need for constant usaps since busy tayo. Basta kung sakali, we’ll find amenable days for both of us. Hindi natin iisipin agad na if la reps ay ghosted na pero subsob lang sa transes lol

- Both parties will respect if suddenly we back out for any reason (e.g., same med skul pala tayo tapos baka awkward, magkakilala pala tyo GAHAH)

- Expect a bit of getting to know muna via chat to see if we okay with each other, without giving too much personal info

Excited to hear from you in my DMs!

(pls dont expect an immediate rep, dami backlog HAHa)