Hello!

I know I posted here but I'm gonna try again.

I'm looking for a guy, 25-40yo (Yes, I don't mind the age gap. It's the vibe that counts), looking for friends with benefits or a situationship. Why am I looking for a situationship? I broke-up with an ex of 7 years last March and that I got emotionally manipulated for the past 4 years of our relationship (gaslighting, refusing to talk if there are problems, etc.). I'm not ready to be in a relationship and I also have plans of trying to look for work and opportunities abroad. But I do miss being malambing and intimate with someone, and just to start and end the day with. I'm also open to being in a throuple-type of situationship (if that makes sense).

About me:
I'm super chub, but it doesn't mean I'm lazy in bed.
I'm 36yo, 5'6.6 tall
I have a Doctorate degree from abroad and I work in the academe from one of the big 3 (if that matters).
I'm a bot-side (I love being thigh-fucked). I am into kissing, nipple-play, lots of foreplay.
I drive my own car (but that doesn't mean that I'll have the energy to drive around Metro Manila)
From Taft Avenue, in between Vito Cruz and Quirino LRT station. I have my own place and I live independently.
I'm love talking, makwento, and texting, so if you find that annoying, I may not be the right one for you.
I am a fur daddy; I have two dogs and two cats.
I love Kpop and a big Twice fan
I am into video games, particularly turn-based RPGs. I have my own Switch and PS5. So if you're a gamer geek, that's a big plus.
I am obsessed with Ikea.
I am on PREP since April 2023.
Aquaries (again, if that matters)
Ambivert (if that matters)
Not manly, but not very effeminate. I can be tame, but can be super gay as hell depends on the situation. I love my personality and I don't have to conform with what other people expect me to do.

About you:
Someone who is thinner than me (Sorry, I know it might sound odd but I do not like dating super chubs; had experiences but not so good), preferably a chaser.
Someone who is already working and financially dependent (I do not like men who ask for money or even try to borrow money from me); Students can be acceptable but maybe graduating and NOT IN THE SCHOOL I AM TEACHING LMAO. But not going to be your sugar daddy.
Someone who is top-side and loves kissing and can be both sfw and nsfw.
Can vibe with me, especially with holding a conversation.
Must be from Makati/Manila or someone who is willing to spend some physical time with me (dinner after work, work dates, etc.).
Can be comfortable being malambing and can hold my hands in public.
MUST NOT BE A CON-MAN. Daming con-man ngayon that victimize vulnerable people ugh.
Must be on PrEP.
Someone who is also game with 3s or orgies. I host intimate orgies (max of 8 people) from time to time.