I've found it pretty difficult finding and maintaining people's interest in relations with me as a trans guy here. Even though I identofy as a man, I know im not the "man" m4m's are expecting, so I tend to scroll past those posts. Im pre-op and pre-t, pretty feminine still too, but out of respect for girls who like girls, I steer clear of f4f posts too. Ive found out recently that I'm attracted to girls too, but again more often than not, im not what they'd expect a "man" to be. My only options are 4TM and 4A posts, and even then they're either old (as in posted months~years ago) or too far out of my age range.
TL;DR: Does being trans (specifically pre-hrt and pre-op) turn people off/ is it not their type? Or is it probably just my looks?
Me: - 5'3 - chubby - curly, short hair - I have femme says and masc days, but my body shape doesn't do the masc days justice
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