Around two weeks ago, I made a post about organizing a group meetup with the intention of purchasing a specific food "Giant Kikiam." Unfortunately, this gathering turned out to be a terrible experience for me, especially since it was my first time meeting people in a group setting like this.

After posting the invitation, I received messages from six people, and we all planned to meet in the city (except for one person who got lost in traffic and gave up). We greeted each other and introduced ourselves. However, during our first walk to the grocery store, one person abruptly left, muttering something under their breath (possibly unrelated to our group). As a result, I was left with three other individuals, and that's when they got too comfrotable.

Now, let me clarify that I'm not usually a sensitive person, and I entered this meetup with a safe-for-work mindset. Initially, our conversations revolved around small talk, such as our relationship statuses and professions (of which I chose not to disclose much). However, the discussions took a deeper turn when they began sharing their dating experiences, even delving into explicit details. This didn't bother me initially; I simply observed and stayed silent. But when we arrived at the third store, one person started becoming overly familiar (which I did not appreciate, as I prefer not to be touched without consent). At this point, the rest of the group suddenly shifted into what felt like a bullying mode towards me.

They began commenting on my choice of clothing, mentioning how flowing my attire was, and inquiring about my expensive-smelling perfume, suggesting that I give off an impression of being affluent. They scrutinized everything, from my phone to the jewelry I was wearing, remarking that it was excessive. One person even placed their shoes near my feet, bragging about their expensive footwear and stating their intention to switch to the same phone brand as mine. Throughout this ordeal, I remained silent, attempting to maintain composure as the meetup leader, all the while fixated for the food we set out to find.

Eventually, we found the kikiam at the fifth grocery store. Since the others had traveled from different locations outside BGC, I offered to drive them to Mandaluyong, where they could easily access buses. One person was heading back to Cavite to visit family, and I could relate to their situation. But in response, someone exclaimed, "Of course she has a car too." Despite feeling overwhelmed by the constant scrutiny of certain aspects of myself and their laughter, I kept my word and drove them to Mandaluyong and left.

Not even an hour pass and i get solicit for a date cause the chemistry is there.....

During this meetup, I felt bullied and belittled. I hope you all understand that, as you know yourselves, I have chosen to delete my Telegram account and block you on Reddit. Creating new accounts to contact me here will not be effective. Please refrain from inviting me to night outs or any future meetups, as I am not interested in any of you.

We parted ways with me being a good sport and blocking you all and deleting telegram after your last messages for afterwards activities should had been a clear sign i am not into you, it nor enjoyed you companies.