hi! 2-3 months ago i posted here about my breakup experience with an emotionally unavailable ex. i tried looking for someone to talk to on here about it, and it rly helped to get it off my chest to people who have had similar experiences as me.

so this time i may be trying it out again with a slightly different intention.

i can safely say i’m ready to date again. however, i’d like to lay things out in advance that preferably, i want to be friends first! as rare as that sounds, i’m looking for a genuine connection. i’m a firm believer that before i get into anything serious or romantic, i need to form a foundation with that person first, and get to know them not as a romantic partner agad but as a friend. i need to connect with someone on a platonic level muna.

hence as the title of my post states, i’m looking for something, haha. just not sure what that is at the moment, but i’m vv much open to see where it goes. im not into hookups or casual dating. dont make me a rebound din. rest assured, you wont be one. also, i am monogamous. so, i’m not rly looking into being part of a poly circle. seeking smth possibly long term with one person. if all else fails, maybe we can still be friends naman. wont be the first time i’ve formed meaningful connections with people i met on dating sites anyway. HAHA but all in all i do prefer if you’re sapphic! strictly women and NBs, please.

oh and- please, dont be emotionally unavailable /gen SKSKSKSKS

some things u may want to know about me first: - 22, lesbian, she/they - aries sun, aqua moon, cancer rising (non negotiable for me na u dont think astrology is stupid) - chronically online (real) - i like having meaningful conversations. or jst conversations na arent dry in general. i try to carry the conversation as much as i can but plz, hope u can do the same! - i have a lot of interests fr ranging from video games, kpop, books, music, pop culture, art, and the like so we’ll never stfu talaga if ure also into a lot of shit i’m into. let’s send memes, twt posts or tiktoks to each other, fleece. haha - currently in my third year of college, so im juggling internship and thesis at the moment. pls understand if i dont reply agad! doesnt mean im ignoring/ghosting yew, busy lang talaga. - kanal humor but can adjust to conyo. eme lang. wont judge naman if ur the latter. maybe leaning more into kanal discussions. chz

hm i think i have exhausted everything necessary naman na. so yeah, feel free to dm if this is something up ur lane 🤩