So ayun, I am planning to get a tattoo or a tattoo sleeve this year. And I have a lot of questions.

For context, I am a Nonbinary but I lean more towards my masculine side. Although I also love my feminine side as well. And so, here are some questions: 1) Can I still seem to have a feminine side if I will get a sleeve tattoo? Di ba masyadong masculine if dun lang sa side na yun? Well, I am also thinking of having a front-side-of-neck tattoo. 2) Given those, if I am from a conservative/traditional family, do you think that they will eventually be okay (di agad) with seeing me with my tattoos (if I push through)? 3) If I work as an urban planner, do you think na people would be okay with working with me? Would clients be okay with working with me? 4) Should I get on my normal BMI before getting those tattoos? Around 70 kg kasi ako with 5'3 or 5'4 height. If 5'3 ako, I need to get a weight of 65 muna. Well, I think I can lose that weight in a month naman. 5) Should I have like put some of my personality into my tattoos? I am scared na scattered/all over the place yung ideas ko kasi. Or is that okay? 6) Any ideas where to get a tattoo around QC/Marikina area na LGBTQIA friendly and safe for someone like me? I might have some tattoo ideas na for Enby like me kasi. 7) How much should I prepare for one tattoo for a starter muna? 8) For the femmes na into masc, are you guys okay with dating a masc na may tattoos/tattoo sleeve? I read that some people, even straight ones, think that you look like someone from preso when you have such tattoos. I am scared of getting that judgment kasi tbh, I find tattoos so liberating and cool.

Thank you so much!