Ako lang ba yung di marunong lumandi? lol. What can I do, every time na lalandi ako, ako pa yung kinakabahan na what if di ako magustuhan, or what if masira yung reputation ko especially im closeted. Ive been using many dating apps, pero hanggang chat lang talaga, and if ever magmeet, which is super bihira, yung convo namin napupunta lang rin into career related na topics.

Or is it just me being me? Although I consider myself naman as average looking, professional, 'medyo' stable emotionally aside from my ever changing moods, pero super hirap makahanap ng magkaka-interes sayo and ppag iinterasan mo at the same time.

Could it be becase (1) di ako out?, (2) or im just not attractive enough in all aspects?, (3) or i have a really bad personality, (4) or i just have a really high standards.

Any recos on a 23 year old shy type and closeted bisexual on how to make landi lol? Also baka may iba kayong suggestion na platform for dating? Better yet lol baka may erereto kayo hahahaha.