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So recently I've posted my greenflags sa mga hookups, as someone na currently in a hookup culture.
Now let's talk about the Red flags sa hookupsπ©. Again, this only based on my experience and my encounters sa hookup culture. Some might be weird or different than others, and that's ok.
Pre-Hookup Red flagπ©
-Too discreet, I respect when people are not comfortable but I'm about to drive into your house. You can kill me or rob me for some reason. Some people has blank profile, doesn't send pictures, wears facemasks sa hookup and some will deceive you to hide their identity.
-Too confident, G app size kung tawaging. I rather be blown away than to be disappointed. I hate when they lie, love cuddles daw pero nangangawit. Love kisses daw and romansahan pero gusto agad iskip ang foreplay. 8", 7", "Isang linggo ipon".
-Selfish. No place, no ride and ayaw mo sa motel or no share tapos gusto mo ako ang mamoblema sa ways para matuloy? Guaranteed na not worth it.
During Hookup Red flagπ©
-Waiting sa room na dark. "Katok kalang" or "pasok ka nalang". Personally I prefer na sinusundo sa labas, lobby or something. I also wanna see in full lights yung place niya and body niya.
-Ayaw tumigas ππ. No hate sa kanila, pero bakit ka nag jakol or nakipag hookup earlier kung hindi mo kaya. Kakapagod rin saka nakaka pressure na icomfort siya na ok lang.
-Drunk or smoker. Grabe yung pag halik mo sa lips ang pait at lasang sunog. Not a total turn off pero maganda sana na sinabi mo na smoker ka before had. Or tapos drunk tas ang baho and pait ng pawis and cum.
-May nilalabas. Toy, poppers, camera or anything. You do you, respect naman if that turns you on pero again. Let me know. Worst experience is may anothrr guy pala sa place and sasali daw... WTFF?? Bakit may pa surprise.
Post-Hookup Red flag π©
Walang after care. Pag ka labas, bihis agad and check phone. Worst is nag oopen ng G app. A little cuddle wouldn't hurt nobody, it makes the experience way better.
Hindi pa yari or kayayari palang nag isschedule na. I mean it's not the worst pero wag ka naman too ahead , baka matakot ako sa commitment ππ. Worst is yung aayain ka sumama sa lakad nila ng tropa niya. Pobla, bars, coffee or Condo. Chill kalang muna.
May signs na baka ma attach. A little compliment is ok pero bigla kang mag 'good morning' or 'Kumain kana ba?'.. Nopeee
User at nangungutang??? I can probably share some stories about those pero, ang hirap maging mabait at mapag ka tiwala sa tao. May nag pa Print sakin, nag pa hatid, naki hipak, nakitulog at nangutang. Wag pong abuso, mahiya kayoππ
ANYWAYYYY... Yaan muna, masyado ng mahaba. Any red flag sayo π©π©??
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