I’ve been having a dilemma lately. All my life I’ve been a top and has always been good at it. Lately I’ve been very curious in trying to be a bottom. I’ve made some attempts to meet top guys/verse guys and it always ends in failure. I am very dominating in bed that when I’m with another top, they end up giving me a blowjob instead or would end up getting fucked by me. The verses would be the same. How do you transition from being a top to a verse?

I’ve been told many times by my sex partners that they cant see me as a bottom because of my demeanor (straight acting as fuck), body built and dick size. But I really just want a dick up my hole.

Any advise? Should I pretend to be effeminate when Im not?

I’ve been contemplating paid sex but I know it’s illegal and I dont want to do anything illegal. Plus it doesn’t turn me on if I’ll pay for someone to sleep with me.