please can someone enlighten me? im so curious and confused with these heteros na "down low" and nakikipag hook up sa gays but still consider themselves straight. i have read stories and even had first hand experience with a guy (i wasn't able able to ask him abt it) and i couldn't fathom their mindset talaga. im not sharing or spreading hate towards them pero curious lang ako ano tumatakbo sa isip nila. i am open to ideas to be educated on this matter para the next time i would encounter dl men, atleast i have an idea why or idk iwasan sila? because based lang sa mga nakikita kong tiktoks and reddit posts, some kept on commenting na to stay away from them ><