Hi, I don't want to post this, pero it feels like it's becoming annoying and messy "most of the time." I'm having a problem when I'm aroused, as it feels like it's noticeable with people around me. I had to change to a more fitted underwear, which is not my thing and feels uncomfortable 99% of the time. I'm always comfortable using only boxer briefs. If I know my friends and I will party, I have to use the fitted underwear, which makes me feel uncomfortable. I tried some online adult items where you put a hard cube or equipment in your private part so when you use it, it will just bump to that equipment, but it kind of hurts, and the feeling of bumping into other people may also hurt the private part.

As for my styling, I always use comfortable pants such as pleated, jogging, and sweatpants. I sometimes have to force myself to use jeans when I think I will encounter arousal. I don't use skinny jeans/pants at all because I'm slim to average. This happens a lot during the bar or when drinking. Sometimes arousal comes from just having it naturally and not being sexually active (I don't know about my body). Do you guys have any suggestions? What items or how do you maintain it not being noticeable?