—bi or bicurious women who’ve only ever dated or had relationships with men in the past and/or only have had one fling/ONS with a woman before. i’m a lesbian and i’ve only had one serious relationship with a woman in the past (during the time it was a first for both of us too; i thought i was bi as well for a while but that’s another story).

swerte naman na most of the time it turns out na they really are attracted to the same sex and mostly mababait naman talaga sila na tao, it’s just na the difference in the dating rituals are just getting to me and giving me a complex HAHA may mga palaro pa eh pwede namang we both like each other and try for something a little more serious and emotionally vulnerable or at least have that conversation so things are more clear-cut. i guess i’m not din the type na manliligaw because it’s just not necessary imo… i can go in depth on how heterosexual dating rituals/courting are based on the archaic idea that men have to prove that they can provide and treat a woman well because marriage is the one of the only ways women can raise their social status or quality of life (SEE: i am a woman also, without the societal privileges; i too am a vulnerable minority) 😮‍💨

anyway just wanted to get that out of my chest and see if maybe other gay women have had a similar experience?