Has anybody experienced or is experiencing having ED whenever having sex with others but you can get so hard when you're alone masturbating?

For clearer context, I get hard when doing it with others, but I cannot maintain that erection to satisfy both of us.

I have reached online sources and there are articles or forums stating that either pornographic-induced ED (PIED) or chokeholding your dicc when masturbating (like regularly) can be the cause.

I think it might be the latter one for my case because many people have commented that I am too furious or smthn with my dicc when masturbating (I post some of it on Twitter lol). Tho apparently, the only way to treat or approach this is by stopping jerking off and have my means of reaching orgasm only through sex.

Welp, here goes handsfree orgasm era.

On the other hand, this has encouraged me to explore my bottom half (as I am a versatop), so I might stick with this for a while until I am tired bottoming lol.