hi. I'm going to try doing this again because I think my last post may not have been clear enough for everyone. I'm looking for a guy who is willing to spend the night together with me, but not just one night, I would like this to be an on going thing...maybe exclusive, depending on how things go. you must be free of stds, no exceptions. you must be honest also because that's important to me. I am a straightforward and honest person. I haven't had many sexual relationships with men before, so I'm naturally nervous about it. if you are just looking for someone to fuck, I'm not that woman. don't let me photos mislead you into thinking I'm someone I'm not. I've done those photos as a way to find my sexuality and self confidence. a year and half ago, I was sick in the hospital and I almost died. I gained weight, so I went through a life changing event I guess you can say. my ex left me also, but that was a blessing in disguise, and he never gave me an orgasm anyway, no man has. I do need to disclose something about myself and it's important. I have a condition called osteoarthritis (degenerative joint disease) basically bad arthritis in my hips and lower back. i walk with a cane and sometimes for further distance I use a wheelchair. it's difficult for me to meet any guys, especially when I am living in a nursing home facility. yeah..... you read that correctly. I'm a 42 year old woman who is in a nursing home. it was only meant to be for a few weeks when I was suppose to get physical therapy after I got sick from pneumonia and blood clots in my lungs, but unfortunately due to unforeseen events, I'm stuck in here until I get housing. I'm able to go out and leave when I want, someone would just need to pick me up and sign me out. I realize not everyone will accept this, and I'm OK with that because I'm only looking one guy anyway. I'm not really looking to mess around with multiple people. I'm not into that. please be respectful and if you aren't interested, not message me and waste my time. please if you are interested, send me your photo. if you have nothing to hide, you shouldn't mind sending your photo, right? if I'm going to trust sleeping with you and getting into a car with you, trust goes both ways. If there's a reason you can't, it better be good. I'm not playing games, I'm serious about looking for the right guy though.... and this should be already known, but I'm living in a nursing home facility and I'm on medicaid. if you're expecting me to pay or split the cost for a room, then forget it. A gentleman should pay anyways. I'm just old fashioned like that.