Screw it, wholesome lonelyposting on main. Pics on profile, and more available on request.
Hi! Call me V. I'm a 23-yo engineering student, amateur voice actor, practicing engineering technician, eagle scout, professional system integrator, amateur photographer, and veteran of the Amazon warehouse rat race of 2020. I come in search of gold, or in absence of precious metals, a lover, a companion, a partner, a soulmate, or something like that. Someone who I can give my heart to, and someone who won't break it again.
Basics - 23M, 5'10", 235ish, white/south Asian, black hair, not-quite-white skin, introverted but I will talk for hours with the right person. Always been a bit shy around new people, but therapy has been helping to overcome a lot of that anxiety. MDD, GAD, ADHD, ASD. I am bisexual, but at this point I'm kind of done with guys for the time being. Been messed with and hurt too many times. Never been with a woman in bed, never kissed a girl, and I don't think I've ever had a proper girlfriend unless you count 4th grade, which I don't.
I like to think I'm a pretty decent person, but I'll let you be the judge of that. I love Italian restaurants, but I always will have a soft spot for a good burger. I am a former voice actor with my baritone movie-trailer-style voice, though I never saw any big-screen jobs, mostly student films. Still have the voice though! I'm a softie at heart, I try to be as caring and open as humanly possible, and I hope whoever reads this will be too (that means you!). I'm a huge cuddle addict, and I've been told my hugs are "to die for". I have my dreams of snuggling with my gf on a relaxed Sunday morning, nowhere to go, nothing to do, and just enjoying that bliss.
I'm going to address this here before I get questions in DMs - sex isn't really a big thing for me. While yes, I've only ever done it with one person, and yes that person had male genitalia, I just don't see sex as something that's of high importance. Sure, I'll have sex with you if you want it, but it's just not really a big deal for me. Meds also make it impossible to finish, so take from that what you will.
So, if you've read through all of that and are still reading here, why not send me a DM or a chat? Shoot me a pic, asl, and a blurb on who you are, and I'll more than likely try to strike up a conversation. Please don't be a ghost, I've had too many of those from the regular r/r4r. I'm looking for something serious and long-term here, and while my hopes are low, they're not gone yet. I've had multi-week conversations with people from reddit, but all I've found are ghosts. Prove my brain wrong and show me that there's still good people out there.
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