My partner and I are in a loving, romantic relationship, but are also kinky fools. So, we are currently looking for third or fourth to add to the bedroom. We're open to a variety of arrangements, generally speaking, but I am currently looking for something a little more specific.
My sub and I are in a Dom/Sub dynamic - this includes various BDSM/kink components. As a Dom, I love the idea of breaking down the self-restraints of shame that women have built up over a lifetime of existing in our incredibly misogynistic, protestant (read: anti-sex, anti-pleasure), and heteronormative culture, and letting their most true, authentic selves come shining through in the form of unapologetic, proud, and joyful sexual expression and pleasure seeking. I do this in many ways, including introspective prompts and assignments, which helps the person slowly process their own prejudices, objects of shame, and engage their true desires mentally. With time, she has come to accept her intense desires to have more unique sexual experience with men and women of all kinds, she's being unapologetically slutty. As her Dom, she has trusted me to vet people and set things up for her.
If someone is a perfect match sexually, I am open for it being a one-off experience. However, I am strongly preferring individuals who we can vibe with outside of the sexual experience and form a casual friendship with, so that we can do this more than once.
So, here is what I am looking for.
- Single DOMINANT Men
- Single DOMINANT or SUBMISSIVE Women (you could dom my partner with me, or be dominated alongside her) [Trans women or Femboys are welcome!!!]
- [MAYBE] A Couple - If you are a couple, you are coming here to be focused predominantly on HER pleasure, not for a swap. You can also reach out if you are a couple of homies, but not a "couple".
- For all, the age range is 20 - 35
- Preferred experience with BDSM and kink. Message with what toys you can contribute to an experience/session.
- 420 Friendly
- This may sound woo-woo, but we're both hippies, so we love spiritual people. Be a little wavy, a little weird.
- Fit and Healthy! We don't need body builder physiques, but we want people who workout and are in decent shape.
- You are willing to provide results of a <2 week old STD screening beforehand
Message me a 3-4 sentences about who you are, 3-4 sentences about what you are interested in sexually and why this post appeals to you, and if I like what I see, I will ask for a picture.
If you are participating in this, I am in control and am steering the scene/date/experience - please understand this. We may sometimes play in a more mellow stag/vixen dynamic, but that is not the case right now. Fun Fact: We are switches and like to switch from MaleDom to FemDom every 30-45 days, so if you play your cards right, you might be called back in for a different yet similar role.
Looking forward to the DMs
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