IVE made a post like this, but its time i make a update.
https://www.reddit.com/user/ChillVibin2/comments/zpdswt/how_to_dodge_scammers_on_r4r_reddits/

I know its annoying to try to find people on here, and i know more than ever that people fall for these stupid scamms, comment on these stupid scamms, and hell even i fall for some of em.

RULE 1. do a basic investigation. Check their profile. If its a new account , magically can hop states like a energizer bunny, has a suspicious vibe or anything, lean on the side of caution. IKYK theirs circulation of the "pegging girl". Some examples are posts of people who are INSTANTLY DTF , who will give you SLOPPY HEAD (MMMMMMMMM YUMMY), a HORNY MOAMMA, a HAPPY ENDING MASSAGE. yeah sorry, as much as we all want those things 99% of those are copy paste scamm posts. theirs more , but these are the obv examples.
RULE 2. DO NOT ever send face pictures or nudies containing your face. that usually gets used as blackmail and or they steal yo shit. headless =safest. hide any identifying things as well. ive seen this a lot where people ask you to immediately send a portfolio of pics including your face and other identifying things. Or asking you to add them on insta because they can get all your info cuz most people dont use a offshore instagram account. Theirs services like snapchat /telegram(personally dont like). However, this doesnt mean your safe.

RULE 3. NO SUCH THING AS "LIVE VERI-FI-CATION" that aint a thing. Methodology of proving your legitimacy has been universal across reddit and scammers fucking hate it because they cant do it. and ive already seen it where people can use some kind of app or something to send fake snapchats/videos on snapchat and all other apps to try to convince people they are legit. THEY ARE NOT . IF they cannot send you a set of 3 pictures with a piece of paper with YOUR username/the date on a piece of paper that dont look photo-shopped or put on top of the image (trust me ive seen both), then just be cautious. you dont need to "go to their free OF page" .

RULE 4. SAFETY FIRST . Sorry to be the realistic person, but 99.999% of women arent gonna meet some person off the intenet instantly the same night. and this ties to rule #1. Gotta realize theirs a lot of messed up people and scamms. the most popular one is the "meet me at the dollar tree" one . yeah ok....... take the time to get to know the person your talking too especially after getting the proof mentioned in rule #3. once safe meet somewhere safe. scammers are committed into gettin what they want. i swear to god, i had a scammer try to convince me they were a pornstar for over TWO MONTHS. not even jk.

RULE 5 : NO PAYING FOR ANYTHING! . yeah obviously you can pay for dinner drinks or whatever yall deem worth for meeting up safely. but never pass any money first to anybody online. idc how convincing shit feels , 99.9% of the time your being jipped. they dont need pills they dont need drugs they dont need as money. and they wont come fuck you if you magically provide these things before any meeting and proof as mentioned above.

General tips and reasonings. WHY am i making this, im making this because i browse reddit A LOT and i always see people commenting on scammers posts like a swarm of people that if they see anything female its insta-upvoted even though their blatant scamm posts. So, these are my general tips and opinions as ive actually had 2 reddit meetups successfully and met a lot more people on here that meetups just have not happened.
1. always ask for proof 2. dont barrage your pics on people because most dont like it or ask for it. 3. analyze your conversation to determine if your not talking to a committed catfish/scammer, because ive seen and heard of some deep shit. like people using thei friends pics to scamm people and they split the $$ they scamm off people.

WHY am i making this post. because i am tired of seeing people fall for scamms, get their money taken, and hopefully if enough people genuinely filter them out, and STOP COMMENTING AND MESSAGING THEM. they will stop existing. the more people fall for it, the harder they breed out. dont get scammed people because the more the scammers get pushed and the more we bury the valid people, the less posts get put up.

Stay safe, Stay happy, Chillvibing2