This post has been de-listed
It is no longer included in search results and normal feeds (front page, hot posts, subreddit posts, etc). It remains visible only via the author's post history.
Instead of using the usual you: qualities, me: qualities format, I wanna list what we both value:
- Intention: We're intentional with the relationships we sustain, including friendships with benefits
- Constancy: We choose to see the sexual partners we've come to know over time, instead of cycling through ads or matches again and again
- Generosity: We understand that good sexual partners are generous, not only with giving pleasure but also time, attention, and genuine friendship
A few things we avoid: overemphasis on looks (appearance is more important as a sign of how well someone takes care of themselves), the usual nitpicking according to school or whether someone has a car or not. (But since it's a pain to commute in this city, know that I'm mostly based in QC)
I'd love to meet someone (25 y/o or older) for whom sex is just one pleasure to appreciate. There's no reason to take sexual partners for granted when we value our friendships, our romantic relationships (hi if you're also ethically non-monogamous!), our passions, and everything else we enjoy :)
Subreddit
Post Details
- Posted
- 2 months ago
- Reddit URL
- View post on reddit.com
- External URL
- reddit.com/r/phR4R30/com...