Been having this recurring thoughts lately, hooking up or even dates for that matter is really difficult, given that I’m too femme for gays and I’m too masculine to be trans. While I do appreciate compliments that I’ve got from you guys saying that I am indeed pretty, a huge chunk of people still rejects me, what I don’t understand is I feel like personality wise I am okay, I’m usually quiet and reserved, professional and independent, I know my boundaries if you wanna have a fubu set up, I still haven’t given up on the idea that someone would really put effort in meeting me up despite my current situation . I'm still in struggle looking for someone to connect here with my current set up since I’m still figuring out this transition thing, for the most part I still look like a boy [and I hate it] but since I’m blessed with androgynous features, I can easily switch my physical appearance to a girl. If you’re curious, we can chat first, and if you’re really keen, we can meet up but with some ground rules. Either way, chatting or meeting up is fine by me. Treat me as a princess and I’ll make sure that I return the favor. Let’s see where it goes.

About me:

• 5"4 and has a petite built, not confident with how I look but based on people I’ve talked to here, they say I’m cute

• A Pre op trans, Works for a start up

• Spends my alone time reading self help books at coffee shops on weekends

• Can carry conversations

• I may not be confident yet with my looks or my identity but I am good in bed I think.

About you:

• Decent, kind and not transphobic

• Can carry conversations

• Bonus points if you work out, though I'm not particular naman sa looks

I’m already 30. Usually online 11PM onwards. If you're straight and curious, don't worry, this will be our little secret.😉