To start, I've been dealing with a personal issue for a while. It's now under control (not cured), but manageable and still improving. It has put a lot of strain on my marriage, which is now over.

My wife and I have separated with what I am assured is zero chance of reconciliation, even though it's still fairly amicable. The situation with accommodation in Perth at the moment, combined with the fact that we have two young kids means we're still living in the same house, though I've moved to the back room. It's a layer of stress that is just vomit inducing when trying to get myself better.

I've completely withdrawn, through my own actions, to be able to focus on myself and without having to make our friends feel like they have to choose sides.

But now I find myself alone, no real interaction with anyone outside of work for nearly three months, and nothing coming close to intimacy for nearly 9 months.

I'm tired, bored, lonely and I just need a fucking hug.

That is all. Thank you for your time.