If you are not okay with a married man seeking an affair partner then just stop right here. I wouldn't want to waste your time or mine, and I truly hope you find what you're looking for.

Firstly and foremost I want to put it out there that this is not an attempt to change my home life or yours. But along with that I want you to know that this is in no way something I want to be a quick hit and quit situation. I am not interested in only my pleasure. I gain more pleasure from mutual excitement than just something for me only. That may happen at some point depending on the time we have but it is not what I am only interested in. This is not about solely sex. I want someone who gets excited to see a new message from me. And I want someone who I can’t wait to hear back from. That spark and fun that comes from something like this does not need to exist solely inside the bedroom. I want a connection. I am very much attracted to intelligence and creative people.

Me? Six feet tall, muscular build. I love to lift weights, I also run, but I don't eat just one plate at the buffet. I am nerdy, and hard working. I love joking around and being adventurous. I love to listen to what you have to say, and will always respect you. I have a dominant sexual personality but can switch as well. I'm not a prude at all and am open to damn near anything.

My sex life at home is very limited. It is not zero, but it is not near what I would like it to be. I am disease free, I am drug free, and I am vaccinated fully. I also take care of myself as a decent human being should. I have a great sense of humor, I am nerdy and adventurous. I am truly not against much when it comes to sex as well. I am however 100% straight as well, and do not have interest in anything with cis men. I am not some guy who expects you to fit a certain mold to talk to you.

Truly what I want is someone I can connect with. I want you to smile when you get a message from me in the morning telling you I hope you have a great day. I want you to be able to feel good when I tell you how gorgeous you are and how you are on my mind. And I want you to be able to enjoy yourself physically in any which way that is. Let me be the one who makes you smile, gets you giddy, and fulfills your every desire.

I want to reiterate how important discretion is to me. I can’t come home smelling like you, and I can’t be messaging you all of the time when I am home either. Which also means I will understand the same for you! I will absolutely regularly message you and there will be very rarely a day you don’t hear from me at all. Hopefully that is all okay.