I understand the unique challenges and joys that come with what we are both seeking, as I have had an AP in the past and had a wonderful connection and we still chat, however she moved away. I'm open to building a meaningful and fulfilling relationship with the right person, I'm not looking to change my current situation.  Being compatible is critical, both sexually and mentally. If we can't hold a conversation or flirt with each other regularly, then I don't see it working for either of us.

What I'm looking for:

• within a few hours of Collegeville/King of Prussia/Pottstown PA. 
• married and over 30
• someone who understands balancing an AP and marriage. I believe this is critical with an AP.
• preferably a long-term connection with someone who values intimacy and emotional closeness, but also who respects and supports my boundaries. 
• Physical attraction to each other is important, but I am not seeking someone to fit the ‘perfect mold’. Someone who takes pride in their appearance - Confidence is always sexy.

About me: 

• Early 40s, married man, Who enjoys working from home, Photography, and I.T. Programming. Navigating the challenges of a life, fulfillment and desire.
• I have a beard
• I'm 6' and 235
• I have Dark hair and eyes.
• I am not going to put a photo here (for obvious reasons), but let's exchange some pics early on in the conversation. I am also happy to do a video call with you.
• I work from home I am available to talk during the day

 I would love to discuss all things sexual kinks etc, however let’s keep that between us. I am very open minded. I would like to find someone that I can explore all of these fun things with. I am part of the D/s community and I take respect and consent to a level that most don’t understand. I am a switch and enjoy both Dom & Sub activities, but I did find that different people bring different energies to the table, And that’s ok. There are very few kinks I do not have an interest in exploring with the right person.  When I say I am a switch It has to do with the person, so I do not normally switch with the same person.

I'm very to the point, and good communication is key. If you’re not interested after we talk a bit - just tell me. I’m not everyone's cup of tea, but hey let's be adults. I'm not about playing those kinds of games.

Thank you for taking the time to read. If you have any questions, would like to explore or chat, send me a message!