Hi there!

Its been a bit since I last posted, but hoping to copy that success. I'm looking for a new kink play partner whom ideally would be somewhat local to me. Preference would be to find someone with a cock, as my last partner was a Domme and I'm missing it. Not a firm rule for the right match in kinks, but if you are female I would want the possibility of some bi play (open to many options of how that would look). I work nights, so preferably looking for daytime play, but can do weeknights on nights off with the right person. I'm looking for scheduled sessions, not booty calls. Strong preference to those who are mature, discreet, all around normal people outside of the kink filled bedroom. I'm D&D free and want you to be too. Just looking for a partner for in the bedroom, but could be open to a golf buddy with a happy ending from this too (note - I'm not a good golfer, but love to "try" to get better).

A little about me: I'm a decent looking, masculine looking guy. I'm white 5'9'' 210 with a beard. I'm HWP, but definitely not skinny, much more a football player build transitioning into a dad bod. I have some salt and pepper starting to the beard/hair as well. I've been involved in kink for 20 years and have plenty of experience as both a Dom and sub. Currently I'd describe myself as a sub leaning switch, and would prefer to find a Dom or switch with this ad. Perhaps also important, I'm not particularly endowed, and while I love to use it if you are looking for someone vers please don't be a size king/queen.

Kink wise, here is an updated kinklist for what I'm looking for now: https://i.imgur.com/dF5NGyQ.png

Things that I'd add that I love in play: I love ballbusting (both giving and receiving), prostate stimulation (receiving, but quite open to giving), and I have a very big cum eating fetish/all around oral fixation. If you are a big shooter, you're very much at the front of the line. I also love orgasm control (giving/receiving), S&M, watersports, plenty more. I'd also add that I think panties both look sexier and feel sexier than traditional dude undies, I love wearing them even though I'm a macho guy.

You don't have to be experienced with kink, just kinky. I think I'm a good teacher, but I do look for someone who has interests/fantasies and not just "I'm open to anything."

I think I see three "fits" for what I'm looking for, I'll mention them as a TL:DR at the end here, in order of preference.

1) The unicorn type that fits above as a Dom/me. You could be a masculine Dom who has been looking for a sub without outside drama. Someone who knows how to balance rough and gentle, knows that if you get me into sub space with the things I love I'm going to please you even more. You could be trans and love the idea of making a masculine man submit to all of your desires and demands. Seeing him beg and whimper for more and more of your cock or finger stroking my prostate, etc. Making him worship you to earn his release. You could be a Dom(me) who loves the idea of a masculine guy submitting to a petite feminine creature. Someone who loves the idea of having someone worship every inch of you or perhaps a bull you decide to have join the session that day. You could also be a couple with some combination of above. I only have experience with couples where both are dominant, one Dom and another sub with me would be particularly exciting to me.

2) You are the unicorn type above as a Switch. All the above applies, but you also like the idea of an experience masculine guy tying you up, exploring your body, showing you how pleasurable pain can be. As a Dom, I'm more a gentle but sadistic Daddy Dom type. I love to tease and have you begging.

3) You're local, a top who can host, but are looking for more a sexual partner than a kink one. I'm not completely against this idea, particularly if you are a normal guy. Appearance will be more important to me for this type of relationship, as if I'm not getting the kink things I need to be visually satiated to be turned on. The extra perks for me in this type of scenario would be if you are a heavy shooter, you can host, if you don't take too long to cum, and if you are open to taking a short video of cumming in my mouth for me to send to the Domme I recently parted ways with (she is no longer local, so we don't play any longer, but we still chat).