I get a lot of pleasure out of pleasing others and have a very caretaking nature to me. I am very sensual and slow, and have explored tantra to intensify the erotic energy. This has increased my sensual stamina and I'm looking for someone to keep learning and growing our capacity for erotic desire together.

If interested, please chat me what interests you about my post, and if your profile is empty, pls send a little context about who you are 🙏🏾

Desires for playmate: - good communicator - open-minded and curious - wants sensual play at first, not necessarily sexual - ongoing play - looking to learn about themself as well as play together - open to light communication outside of playtime

Boundaries - emotional space needed between seeing each other - no sleepovers (at first) - no kissing on lips or intercourse (at first) - no involving others unless agreed to (other than therapists) - scene boundaries discussed before play

Safety - public meetup to see chemistry first - review consent and potential triggers in person - has existing mental health support or sets it up - establish safe words for slowing, pausing, and ending scene - regular STI testing (if play becomes sexual) and communication about potential effects of other relationships on each other

Aftercare - ~30min-1hr to discuss feelings about what felt good and what to change for next time - open to hugs, cuddling, watching a show, eating to decompress

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