Who I Am

I'm married (poly) and looking for someone to explore a very specific kink with (more on that in a minute). I'm an artist and have always been the eccentric, I don't really experience shame - but I'm fascinated by it - so I usually just do my own weird thing. I'm interested in finding other people that get that or resemble that, or just like being open and different.

Looks

I'm 6'4", 197 pounds; white, have dark brown hair, angular features, larger than average nose, chest hair, blue eyes, Slavic. My dick is 6.5 inches by 5.5, roughly.

What I'm Looking For

I love facesitting and eating ass. I love the feeling of being pressed under someone's ass, that claustrophobic sensation that reduces the world down to me and my partner's rear. So, I want to take that further. What does that mean? The short version: put your ass in my face and do things with it for the evening until I feel as small and submissive as possible.

As for the long version, here's a big list of things I've masturbated to, at some point, while thinking about this: having to kiss ass, literally; sniffing; licking (obviously) - slightly more kinky: you rhythmically press your ass down on my face, holding for a moment each time, over and over; you put your finger in yourself and rub it on my face, in my mouth, in my nose, maybe even wipe it across my eyes till my whole face smells like your hole; you make me say embarrassing things, or repeat them back to you, while gently suffocating me with your ass till I do it to your satisfaction - upping the kinkery: you spit in my face and grind your ass on my wet face; you push (or wink) your asshole out repeatedly in my mouth or on my face; you make me beg your ass directly to be gentle while being more aggressive with it in between; you push down and clench your ass tight over my face - and finally: you fart in my mouth or face; you threaten to shit on me and make me plead with you not to or joke about how easily you could do it and might do it; you have me eat your ass under a blanket while you relax and watch TV and, periodically, fart on me while I do so.

I'm definitely open to additional suggestions or ideas.

Other Kinks

This isn't exhaustive, but some stuff that you might want to include.

Facesitting, pussy eating, being pissed on or drinking piss; size humiliation, being laughed at or made fun of, being spit on, being edged, toothy blowjobs (to a point), squirting, very long sessions (preferred), being threatened, over intimacy, impossible to please personalities.

Limits

Hard limits: being strangled or choked (I don't like my neck touched at all), being tied up or bound, impact play (no punching or face slapping), lack of safe word, findom.

Public play isn't exactly my thing and I'd prefer just the two of us. However, if you want to push the limit: getting on my knees and kissing your ass in a public place (but out of sight) would be within reason. The same for eating your ass in a restroom stall or fitting room; or doing this kink in an outside, but fairly empty area. Going full on in open public would be a hard limit.

I'm not into pain, but am open to small quantities of it. If you want to spank (with hand) me that's fine. If you want to twist my nipples, slap my balls, pull my pubic hair, etc., that's not really my thing. Pain for pain's sake doesn't do much for me.

Light suffocation is great, but not extended periods without breathing. I'm fine with your ass being right up in my face and making it hard to breathe easily, as long as I can breathe. Threatening to suffocate me is perfectly fine and fun.

Some face riding and grinding is fine; reasonable pressing too. Aggressively humping my face or pushing with extreme pressure is not.

Finally, given the subject matter, I'm in a mixed position with scat stuff. It's not something I want, so to speak, but I like committing to things. So, if there comes a point that you want to shit on me, then you can do that. It's not something I've done before, so we might have to stop for a minute after (depending). So, if you feel it, just do it.

Anything that isn't a hard limit is something we can get a feel for. I'll let you know if something is too much and, similarly, you can build up gradually as you go rather than starting at max intensity.

Who I'm Looking For

First and foremost, I'm looking for someone that thinks this'd be fun or who wants to give it a try. It's not important to me if you're a super experienced dom or just want to try your hand at it and see where that goes.

Age isn't a factor, but I don't always have a lot in common with people very much younger.

Race and ethnicity don't matter at all. Nor does appearance or body size.

If it matters, I fall in the left and progressive category. People to the right and conservative are perfectly fine, though politics might be a topic we should avoid. However, if you're bigoted, racist, anti-LGBTQ, those kinds of things, I'm not interested.

As for personality, I don't think you can condense that down and it'd probably just rule out those I'd enjoy. So, as far as that goes, we can talk and see how we get along.

Nature of Relationship

I'm not looking for an impersonal hookup. Nor a full romantic relationship. Ideally, a middle ground would be good: real feelings, real friendship, we see each other once a week, maybe every other, sometimes more, sometimes less, but we talk in between and care about and respect each other.

Logistics

I live in Beaver County. I have more free time during the workday period of the day (9-5) and at night (10 till early morning) than I do in the evenings, but am able to be flexible. Once a week would be reasonable for me, every other week is workable - meeting once a day or once a quarter year are too much and too little, generally.

As mentioned, my wife knows I'm here and what I'm looking for and into. She won't be involved, but you will see her and she'll say hi; my house is large enough it won't matter. If you're in a relationship, that's fine, as long as you're being ethical.

I am looking for someone that wants to do this and will do this. I'd definitely like to chat, first, and make sure we're a good fit, but I'm not looking for online only. An ideal first meeting would be in a public place and, then, going to a hotel to do femdom stuff and seeing how that goes (though, we can do these over two meeting if you'd like). After the first time, once we establish basic trust, we can meet at our homes - I can easily host and tend to prefer that.

Replying

I'm super open, so any questions are very much welcomed. I prefer replies that go beyond 'hi' or 'hey' and give me an idea of what caught someone's interest or who they are, but if you're interested and bad at starting conversations, I can work with that - but I will ask a lot of questions.

Finally, if you're reading this, then I'm still interested in new replies and talking to someone; so, by all means, let's talk.