Was thinking earlier ,when I was 26 started seeing a really sexy lady (32) who just oozed sexuality but not in a slutty way.first month sex was great ,really great .one night after a party with friends ,she showed me her "private toy box" and basically said she really loved playing with guys asses with vibrators,dildos but her strapons were her favourite.she told me not into dom/sub stuff In fact subby guys were a major turn off ,really into straight (ish) guys like me who were masculine and had muscular trimmed bodys.

She was a very persuasive lady ,and that's how I went from no real anal play to in a matter of a week being a lover of the strap on. First night was just simple easy release handcuffs to bed and she wanted to see what she could use on me and I'd enjoy.sucking whilst sliding some toy in always worked as distraction. Only together about a year but found that she fucked me as much or probably a bit more than I did her. Made it through almost all of the strap on dildos but 2 were as she described no idea what I was thinking when I bought them on a trip to Amsterdam.

My question for the guys is ,how did she spring it on you ,was it a surprise or gentle persuasion or deal type situation ( u do this I will do that in return)

It was one of those nights that changed a lot for me sexually. One of the few ex's I do think occasionally about and get horny .