Need a little advice for a nooby if i may. A little complicated and therefore a bit long. TLDR: I want to be pegged but I'm not really into anal play.

I'm a married male who is not super into anal play. I have played around with myself a bit but was never into it at all. As far as the wife she isn't super into it. She has expressed ample willingness to experiment with it if i ever requested it. But so far I have stuck to myself and my own fingers. Im not opposed to it, it doesn't offend me, it doesn't turn me off, But in general its just not my thing. And I was perfectly comfortable with that until 10 minutes ago when my wife of 13 years described herself wearing a strap on and using it as a weapon. Then all of a sudden this cascade of images and fantasies flooded my mind. We talked it over and she is open and even excited. she loves the idea of having a dick to play with. We will be making some purchases soon. I am super turned on by the idea of her having a dick to play with as well. Which brings me to my conundrum. I'm into the cock. I'm into the power dynamic possibilities, the role play possibilities, and I think I want her to peg me eventually. Any tips on how to enjoy it more? I don't want to force anything on myself. insertion really isn't my thing, I enjoy a light tickling or rubbing but insertion was never enjoyable to me. Is it the fingers? Should I try toys instead? Should I just accept that it probably just isn't my thing? Or is full on pegging just that much different of an experience that my play preferences aren't even really a factor?