Can excitedly say I was recently able to share my pegging kink with my wife to which I received a warm reception 💕. It has completely reignited the passion between us, and has been a great weight off of my chest after feeling she would be intimidated by it. Hid my self play for quite a while for fear of shame (which I know now is ridiculous).

The Dynamics here are different than just attaching a dildo to the shower wall.... And we have a few things that I would like to overcome that you all might have suggestions and or products to suggest to help/make better.

1) I had my wife help pick out the harness she's going to be the one wearing it and I want her to be comfortable, from "Strap on me". Which is seemingly not of lower quality. But having wider hips we find it doesn't fit her quite like we intended and mounting area rids low on her pubic mound.

I'm certain there's probably more flattering/comfortable/high quality harnesses out there. There are just so many options to choose from. Does anyone have any products or brands to recommend?

We don't intend for this to be a once in the blue moon kind of deal. This is going to be a regular part of our lives together now and we want it to stand up to the test.

2) I am 6 ft tall and my wife is 5'4. We tried several different positions trying to get our height to work out. But ultimately had to settle on the flat on my stomach and her behind me. We know it will take some practice with her not being experienced with thrusting. Was just curious if anyone else can share any positions that work well for this and/or aids like risers or sex furniture that doesn't look like sex furniture to help here.... Or any other uses of things around our house that we haven't thought of yet.

3) I have worked my way up the ranks to being able to handle a good amount of girth and length. I would love suggestions for dilldos that can be used by both me and on a harness together. Variety is the spice of life I guess. I can handle inserting 8 inches and can take girth of at least 2. So, I wouldn't call myself a beginner. What do y'all got!?

4) I've done my best to clean before hand. But, still want to do better. What dietary and cleaning routines have you found a successful with, and what products do you recommend?

5) More advice on having great experiences together welcome!

Advice from both peggers and pegged encouraged! Thanks in advance.