I’ve read the community rules and I believe this post is acceptable but please let me know if not! I posted in the findom sub but it was suggested I should ask the sub perspective.

I am here humbly seeking input from finsubs. I was recently approached on Fet by a sub seeking a Domme. I have no findom experience but he wanted to send me money. We hadn’t spoken much before he began asking if he could send me a tribute and I was a bit unsure as to how to respond. I find I am enjoying chatting with him but the idea of taking his money feels uncomfortable to me.

Because I am enjoying playing with him I was hoping to find something that might sort of replicate the feeling of him sending money but in a way that I’m not actually taking it. So my question is whether this is something that has actually “scratched the itch” for anyone, or if it is just not satisfying at all?

I realize he and I may be incompatible if this is something he needs that I cannot fulfill; but if there is a way to keep playing with my little pet I would love to be able to.

I appreciate any input! TIA ☺️