I've been involved in findom for a few years now, starting back when I was in college. This isn't something that just happened overnight, but rather a journey that's been ongoing for about four years and femdom many years before that. Over time, I've had both positive and negative experiences, and I thought it might be helpful to share some of them, both the highs and the lows, to give a fuller picture of what this lifestyle has been like for me.

Over the course of my findom "career," I've been owned by about five or six dommies, give or take, whenever I'm not running around as a community wallet. I have a decently sized following on twitter and am currently, I'm still in contact with two of them, and I'm fortunate enough to remain good friends with one of them. We share a mutual respect, and while the dynamic may have shifted over time, the connection and understanding we built have remained strong. This kind of longevity in relationships, even in a findom context, has been one of the more rewarding aspects of my journey.

However, not all of my experiences have been positive. My very first domme is a notable example of this, and to be honest, it was my only truly negative experience. At the time, I was young and a bit irresponsible, and I allowed her to drain $3,000 from my savings just before Christmas. I learned a valuable lesson from that experience—one about boundaries and financial responsibility that I carry with me to this day. In hindsight, I realize it was more a reflection of my inexperience than anything else, but it was a tough lesson nonetheless.

Currently, I'm serving a very kind domme who is in college, and it's been a very fulfilling arrangement. I genuinely enjoy hearing about her experiences, and being there to support her has been a rewarding part of the dynamic. Serving someone who is kind and thoughtful in return has made the experience more balanced and enjoyable, allowing for trust and mutual respect to flourish.

Throughout my journey, I've done all sorts of tasks, some more unique than others. One of the most memorable tasks I've been assigned was kneeling in an airplane bathroom mid-flight and taking a photo as proof to send to my domme. As unusual as it may sound, these kinds of experiences have shaped my understanding of the lengths to which submission and dedication can go. While tasks like these may seem extreme to some, they have been part of the overall experience that has helped me grow in my role.

Ultimately, my involvement in findom has been a journey of ups and downs, teaching me lessons in self-discipline, financial management, and the importance of maintaining clear boundaries. While there have been challenges, the connections I’ve made and the experiences I've had have helped me grow, not just in the context of findom, but as a person as well. I will probably be around for many more thousands to come :)