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How would you feel if someone sent back the money you sent that was over your budget?
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Background:

I recently was scrolling through a post and the topic of over-sending while in subspace happens sometimes.

A sub mentioned that being stopped kind of ruins the experience,

And a domme mentioned about the best way to stay “ethical” when a sub goes over their budget while in subspace.

I’ve also seen a Domme post about figuring out a way to send back money a sub over sent and not fully knowing how to send it back the right way.

So I have a question:

To keep the Domme ethical and to let the sub have a good experience, would sending the money back to a sub, that was over their budget, AFTER the sub has left sub space be a good medium for both parties?

If it was agreed to be sent back before a session or if you’re in a LTR for that to be one of the rules, would that turn a sub off and ruin the experience, or could you get past that?

Some subs lose sight of boundaries and it becomes a Dommes job to maintain those foundations. I personally believe that if a domme is 100% ethical, they would respect those boundaries and send it back, but that’s just me.

Does anyone have any thoughts about that or ever encountered a problem relating to that?

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