My 13yo daughter asked to go to the bowling alley with friends. It was raining so I picked them up from school and took them to the bowling alley. She got an official boyfriend a couple weeks ago. Her very first boyfriend, who is also 13 and a bit smaller than her.

I said I'd pick them up at 5pm. Drove there, text her (no answer), called twice (no answer), so I had to go inside in my Wonder Woman onesie pj's. Sorry not sorry, thankfully it's close to Halloween.

I find her friends playing an arcade game but found my daughter in the little kids play place tunnel with her boyfriend laying on top of her!

I feel so sick. Me and her dad (we've been happily married 15 years) talked to her about it when we got home, about trusting her and that she's not old enough to be doing such mature things. I didn't want to make a huge deal about it because I didn't want her to think she needed to start hiding stuff. But I am feeling so sick! She seemed receptive and maybe a bit embarrassed but I don't want her to blow off our wishes.

Her dad wanted to be even more lenient about it and not really say anything at all, but he's also the guy whose mom was banging on the wall for him to "keep it down" when he was having sex at home during his HS years. Still shaking my head at that one...

Need some support please.