Both kids (almost 13, and 15) have tiktok after we keep finding out they have it and making them delete it. I didn't snoop, they asked me to skip a song on their phone and the lock screen had a tiktok email notification. I don't have tiktok but I could see that the followers on one kid's account was my other kid.

Where to go next? We've discussed the reasons we don't want them to have it. They have another social media account on another platform that we approve of. The previous times we found them having it, we didn't go through their phones. We just had them show us they deleted it. We try to respect their privacy.

But since they keep breaking our rule, what can we do differently?