I just found out I'm Pansexual after chatting with my friends and they told me I am not bisexual as I thought I was! I was heterosexual until 31yo, then started going out with girls, and for 15 years only dated girls (stayed in a lesbian marriage for 8 years during that time). Now, I've been separated for 2 months and started to look for hook-ups. Wishing to meet people, independent of the gender. So my friends seeing that told me: "so you like girls, guys, trans, you are not bisexual, you're pansexual". That information is pretty new to me and now I'm crazy searching for some info on what, how and why... Am I being to obnoxious? I liked the idea of being Pan. Just don't know much about it yet. Accepting tips and advices.