Hi everyone, im new to this sub.

I've been pan for a long while and am not new to queer living. I was told about the lesbian master doc, so my best friend and I did it for fun. I identified with a lot of it, but some of the parts about not finding men attractive at all or 'forcing' myself to like men or similar didn't really ring completely true to me.

I feel like I've been getting gayer and gayer and the ratio of attraction to men vs nonmen is changing rapidly in favor of nonmen.

Men I used to follow on social media for their thirst traps, I now find cringe. I'll match with a guy on a dating app (I use it very passively) and when he messages me, I go back to his profile and cannot, for the life of me, remember why I matched with him in the first place. Men have just gotten increasingly difficult to find attractive. I know a common thing for pan individuals is that they have a preference and that preference ratio can vary. My men side just keeps shrinking and shrinking. I still like some men, it's just SO FEW of them.

Has anyone else gone through something like this? What do I do with these feelings?