31/f 40/m we have never played or did anything with another couple before. We are looking to maybe me another couple that are also new. We are okay with taking it slow or even if it just leads to new friends and nothing happens.

We would like to start by maybe drinks at a resturant or hanging out, play some board games, hot tub or something. Very important that wife gets along with other female above all else first.

To her guys come second. We might even want to watch another couple at first. She doesn't want to feel jealous of any kind. Just if something happens, it's just about plesuure and sex. I'm guess other women might feel this way also.

Wife said it was okay to post but I have not let her know that I did. A fantasy we talked about was a game night that lead to playing, soft swapping, even a teenager game of strip poker, spend the bottle or 60 secs in a closet with a stranger. We like the build up, teasing and stuff I guess.

One thing she has talked about was letting something happen organically, such as meeting a couple at a resturant bar. So either way. She is into girls but has no experience at all with one, she isnt sure how far she would go but thinks with time she wants to try it.

She isnt sure if a swap happen she would want to be in same room or separate. Again we are new to any type of couple play but know we are interested and open to it.

Anyway, didn't think this post would hurt anything to maybe explore options. Message and we can talk more I'm details. We don't mind sending pics and we talk a little about this. We are even down for phone play. Any ideas or thoughts are welcome.

We are not looking for single guys for this post.