All post titles must be in the R4R style. They must include your age and your request. Some examples:

•38 [F4A] Looking for casual fling

•58,48 [MF4MF] Couple wants friends & more

•28, 36 (MF4F/T/CD) Bi Couple Wants Freaky Fun

You may include this tag inside brackets [ ] or parentheses ( ).

Available combinations (not case sensitive) include:

•M

•F

•W

•MF

•T

•NB

•CD

•A (Anyone—only after the 4)

You may use a forward slash (/) to add additional letters at the end.

No one under 18 may view or participate in this subreddit. No people under the age of 18 may be depicted in ANY image or video. No stories/scenarios/fantasies involving anyone under the age of 18. All subscribers must be over the legal age for where you live (BUT NOT YOUNGER THAN 18). Violators will be banned and reported to the Reddit admins.

Moderators reserve the right to delete any posts that even appear to violate this rule.

No external contact information may be posted. Posts containing contact info (including in watermarks) will be removed. Trying to circumvent this rule by altering/splitting text to avoid filters may result in a permanent ban. This rule may be amended at any time, and amendments may be enforced retroactively if necessary. Make sure you visit https://www.reddit.com/settings/messaging and enable chat and/or messaging to receive messages from other users. No using forms to harvest data.

No external contact information may be posted. Posts containing contact info (including in watermarks) will be removed. Trying to circumvent this rule by altering/splitting text to avoid filters may result in a permanent ban. This rule may be amended at any time, and amendments may be enforced retroactively if necessary. Make sure you visit https://www.reddit.com/settings/messaging and enable chat and/or messaging to receive messages from other users. No using forms to harvest data.

This sub is for private, non-commercial connections between Redditors, not for talent recruitment or advertising premium services (including within your profile). Any posts with leading questions without a specific "ask" associated with "R4R" will be handled using this rule. If you want to "show off" your attributes without an R4R connection, please use one of the subreddits made for that purpose.

People of ALL types post here. If you don't like someone's picture, fantasy, request, outfit, hair color, etc., just move to the next post. Don't post a mean comment. Don't downvote (SAVE THAT FOR SPAMMERS!). Just move along. Please be nice to each other. If someone is breaking the rules, report them. You can also send us a modmail at https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=%2Fr%2Forlandor4r.

Do not offer illegal/inappropriate transactions or activities. Do not hint at offering illegal transactions or activities (this includes offering/asking for goods or services in exchange for a meet). This includes using codewords and hiding your intent in hidden text or emojis.

•No media of any 3rd parties unless all parties are COMPLETELY aware of the camera. No "sneaky" shots. No hidden cams. No blindfolds. No dicks in glory holes.

•If you post using another person's photos/videos (including commercial content), you will be permanently banned.

•The same image, video, or link may be posted once every 5 days. Attempts to fool the bot by manipulating the same image could result in a permanent ban.

• No memes or embedded text in graphics.

• Accounts must be at least 24 hours old.

• Your combined karma must be at least 5 with no negative karma.

• You may post one time per 24-hour period. If you delete and try to repost, you may not repost until the 24 hour period has expired. Posting using "sock puppet" accounts to avoid this rule will lead to all of your accounts being banned from the sub.

If the first photo (or only photo) in your post is an extreme close-up of any body part that isn't on your face, please mark it with a spoiler. The mods have been doing this as a trial, so take a look at the subreddit to see what counts as an "extreme close-up." Generally, it is a shot of a single, unclothed body part that takes up over 25% of the image. If the close-up shot is after your non-close-up photo, there is no need for the spoiler tag.

If you see an ad that interests you, PLEASE message that person directly. Do not post a comment that says "DM me" (or some variation of the same). If you are unable to message someone, then either their messages are off (which is their problem), your karma is too low or account is too new (your problem) or you're shadow-banned (also your problem). That means your comment won't be visible in the sub anyway. Spamming comments/posts after being warned will result in a ban.

Sorry for this ask. We know most of you don't want to tell on people. But this subreddit has been banned once for too much unregulated content that was spam/illegal. The mods try to eyeball every post, but if we miss something, your downvoting and reporting helps us catch it. You can also send the link to us directly at https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=%2Fr%2Forlandor4r if you aren't sure if it breaks any rules.