In search of a new dom and hoping I'll have some luck here: I'm a trans male sub, short, bit of a twink, thin, sometimes a brat and I'm looking for a long term dom that matches with me sexually but also has interests that line up with mine, someone I can actually talk with.

I'm very submissive and into: kneeling, oral, cock warming, bondage, spanking, slapping, spitting, forced servitude, misgending/renaming, free use, loaning out, servicing a group, collaring, fisting, gagging and being marked. There is more but thats a good start. Limits include scat, switches, recording, misgendering outside of scene, and severe humiliation. I would love a dom whose interests match mine but most of my pleasure is from pleasing my dom.

Aftercare is important to me (for both of us) especially for rougher play. I like to cuddle, talk, maybe watch TV. I have very geeky interests (sci-fi and fantasy TV, cult cinema, literature analysis). It would be great if we enjoyed similar media that we could talk or argue about (I love a debate! don't care if I lose or win but I'll argue until convinced). Though if my dom is really into something I'm not I make it my mission to get into it as well. If we could play video games, or visit a museum, or catch a movie or cook together that'd be great with or without the implementation of a scene.

Looks aren't as important in a dom to me as somebody I can trust and talk with. I do like someone who makes me feel small but that's not difficult. I've usually gone for unusual looking people but anyone who puts me in my place tends to immediately become the hottest person I've ever seen. Looking in the 23-40 age range but that isn't a hard limit. Would love a long term dom but short term play is better than nothing.

To answer any gender questions I might get: FTM means transitioning from female to male, I am a guy but during scenes I'm fine being called a girl, I have not had surgery but I am planning on it eventually, I take hormones, I'll answer any legitimate questions you have but would appreciate if my dom understood some about what being trans is before meeting.

So if this isn't too long and you're interested let's get coffee, test out a scene and if all goes well I'll wear your collar and call you Sir (or Daddy or Master).