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34[F4M] #tustin last ditch effort before I call quits
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sodaratings is a female age 34 looking for a male in Tustin, CA
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I can’t be the only one that feels like the art of dating in courtship has essentially become nonexistent. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t mind a coffee date just to see if there is mutual attraction, but all of this low effort dating has really put a damper to my mood.

Men do not put an effort into dating anymore. Why am I am spending so much time and effort to get ready for a date only to be taken to a mediocre restaurant, asked to split the bill(which I don’t mind, I’ll pay my portion), but then we go back to the car and they want to get frisky in the car??? Sir, you are in your late 30’s conducting business like this? Gross, no thank you.

I’m also so turned off by the men who put no efforts in their appearance but will only date women who are dolled up. What kind of Tom Fuckery is this? I’m not expecting you to be a chiseled Greek God but at least have some decency to put some effort into your appearance and personality. There are so many resources for men to look up easy outfits and grooming techniques they can utilize in their day-to-day looks. Don’t even get me started on their hands and feet, you are an adult with adult money, please get them trimmed.

If you made it this far in my post, tell me the worst date you’ve ever been on. Let’s exchange dating horror stories and why you’re now putting dating on a back burner.

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