Hello, my wife and I have been together for almost 20 years and a few weeks ago she told me that she doesn’t think she will ever be intimate with me again. That she loves me but is not in love with me and that we should stay together for our 4 kids but should see other people on the side… I asked her if she had someone already lined up and if this was her way of asking for permission and she said no. But that if she hooked up with someone after our conversation then it wouldn’t be cheating. Our relationship has had its share of ups and downs and the last couple of years have been pretty down… I am crushed, but have been thinking about it for a couple of weeks and I kind of feel like I should just agree to it so she can find some happiness. I had hoped that we could overcome our issues and that she could find me attractive again and have some desire for me… I kind of feel like this is the end of our marriage but I still hold out hope that we can turn the corner. I guess I just need a place to vent… Thanks