Just like the title says idk how to market myself. I'm a cosplay/petplay heavy account but I can't tell if I suck or if I'm still too new or what my problem is?

I've done OF on and off for a few years but I've never been what I would consider successful at it. I always just barely make my bills. I feel like my content is good and when people sub they tend to stay but how do I market myself and get more eyes on my content? I'm disabled and can't keep a normal job but I'm not disabled enough for disability. It's a hard place to be in so I really need to make this work for me this time.

Tiktok/insta/reddit are my main marketing avenues rn. Im wondering if i should do instagram reels or Youtube shorts or something? Im not sure how to drive traffic. I'm lost...

Any tips or advice greatly appreciated.