So I've done some variation of SW for years but stopped during covid because I moved and never really had time to get back into it. I recently started doing OF again because I'm having a hard time finding a job that can pay all the bills and my SO doesn't want to work more than four days a week. I talked to my SO about them picking up another day at work because I was working 5-6 days a week while they worked four so they could play video games the other three 😑. They initially had 0 interest in working more despite us struggling so I told them I'm going to start doing OF again and after a few weeks they realized that I wasn't joking(I made it very obvious I was serious I guess they just didn't realize that I had guys literally waiting since covid for my OF to come back). So my SO realized that I was actually making money and THEY suggested doing a video together. I agreed and had them fill out the consent form....well days go by and I'm like should we make the video? And they just kept saying yes but after a few weeks they freaked out on me and where like you only want to be with me for monetary value and you don't love me.... I told them we don't have to make the video and they suggested it so I thought they wanted to. They pretty much just admitted they only said yes because they thought that meant we were going to engage in activities right that second off camera. I didn't realize I was agreeing to trading "favors" for them to be in a video and it honestly made me not want to be in a relationship anymore. Then they bring up that if I needed help with anything they would help take pics/videos and I said no (they honestly suck at taking pictures or doing anything that doesn't immediately benifet them plus the whole video thing made me feel like them offering to help me with OF is just them manipulating me.)they seemed upset then were like can you at least send me all your content and I told them no because the last person I dated that I did that with sent everything to all his friends for free. I told them they can subscribe to my OF and they just got mad. Then the other day we went to get pumpkins and I got an extra one to make a video for OF with and they told me they wouldn't be paying for that pumpkin.... Fine I had no problem paying for it but what bothers me is they put 0 effort in to helping me even get mad about being asked to help me with OF but they have no problem spending the money I make on OF.