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I don’t know how you do it. I think I’m ready to start then there is another hurdle. I have opened 10-15 accounts in the last week and I am exhausted. I set up Instagram, X, TikTok, my email, Reddit, only fans, fanvue, and cam accounts. I thought for sure I would be ready.
Then I go onto Reddit to try to post and get people to my account only to find out I have to make a red gifs to verify for half the groups.
I just spent like $500 on make up, nail stuff, lingerie, lighting, camera equipment, ect.
I’m not a super girly girl. I’m kind of a minimalist and I have kids so I invest most of my stuff money into getting them stuff so I didn’t really have lingerie or nail polish or anything like that.
It’s just been exhausting and every time I jump over hurdle there’s like five more.
Like don’t get me wrong I’m super sexual and in that aspect I’m cut out for the job , but I hate social media, especially the kind that rely on pictures and videos. I’m not really a selfie girl so becoming one spin challenging I don’t know how to do anything on TikTok. There’s people I can pay to do that for me, but obviously I’m just starting out and I’m trying to keep cost down until I start making money. I’m a little bit older, in my 30s. And I’ve got an ugly body so I have to get lingerie.
Says she’s been kind of expensive and obnoxious. I’m just ready to actually make some money off of this.
I don’t know if you have advice I guess I would welcome it, but I’m mostly just looking to see if you guys had the same experience when you started out .
I’m signed up for both. It’s one of the gazillion sites I signed up for.
Yeah, I can tell you one benefit I’ve had already is that I have zero desire to be in a relationship. I’ve spent my whole life feeling like I needed a man or feeling like I needed attention and at this point, I have so much of it I’m done with men 😂. I get the confidence boost, and how it can help with your mental health.
I’ve gotta let go of my perfectionism and find happiness with my body. Then just let go and get the pictures out there.
Thank you so much! yeah I got a pretty face lucky for me. I’m working on angles and having the right clothes to make my body look decent too. I’m a little confused about my niche because I look younger than my age. But my body is definitely a milf body. I’m 35 but with those filters I look younger. I’m not sure if people looking for MILF material are looking for age-based material or for body types? I’m not sure if I should say I’m 30 or 25 or be honest and say I’m 35 and just look good for my age.
Yeah, I was planning on doing camming and then promoting through that. I can handle that.
I feel like athletic wear and workout attire is super sexy.
Right, yeah I used to live in LA and probably have a few friends that could do it for me or that I could be put in contact with. I don’t know any creators personally and the word used for contacting other creators is banned on this sub.
Yeah, part of why I got overwhelmed was because I made a fan view and wasn’t ready to start but someone subscribed and I felt like I had to start putting out content so everything happened before I was ready. I’ve had to rush into things because I didn’t wanna let someone down for 5.99 lmao.
Yeah, I just made a fansley, I haven’t uploaded anything to it yet. I have a fanvue, but nobody’s heard of that apparently.
Yeah that’s the other thing most cam girls have all the lovesense toys. Like grrrrrrrrr. I have a handful but no interactive.
Thank you that was very helpful. Part of my burnouts definitely from working, raising kids and then having to do this after they go to sleep. I’m feeling guilty for spending Too much time on my phone through the day right now. They’ll start school soon, so I will have more free time. I do like video games and haven’t played in a while so I guess it’d be a good excuse to play. My other hobbies are cooking and gardening. I will start posting cute SFW pics daily, and NSFW on my OF. It’s crazy how well-rounded of a human being you have to be to do this. I like the personality aspect of it though, and I get it because I have my own kinks.
Yeah, I mean, they technically can. You’re right I don’t have my fourth amendment right. Kind Of government property.
I don’t leave my house. They can’t tell me what to do inside my house except for not drink or do drugs. Not breaking any laws, it just limits the place I can film and the time frames. I have a job. that’s where I give them my information from but yeah, i didn’t tell her. And honestly, the only reason why she would need to know is if I quit my other job because I am supposed to be employed, or if it came to me actually making money which I haven’t done yet and that being applied to my house arrest fees.
I keep telling myself it’s just one more account. It’s just redgifs. It’s just getting verified Reddit.
But thank you so much. I do have a pretty face. The pictures I have are all angles and clever clothing. Notice none of them show my belly, or have my boobs hanging out without a bra to hold them up a bit.
I have videos of me having sex with ppl I won’t post because I’m actually naked, so I’m waiting on my lingerie to re-record. So I can just pull my panties to the side.
My kids are awake through the day. I’m on house arrest so leaving is not an option.
Yeah, but then I have to sleep with people I don’t want to. I only fans I can choose who I sleep with and what I do. I don’t know if there’s mainstream porn in Indiana.
I’d honestly prefer to pay someone to handle my social media for me, then have to go do porn for someone. I can handle the one on one aspect with the people and the subscribers. I hate Instagram, TikTok and x.
Yeah, I get it when I signed up. It said that most people get their subs through Cam and I was OK with that. That’s pretty cut and dry. My issue is that literally the only thing I have to post is my kids, that’s all I am outside of this is a mom. If I didn’t do only fans, I would have a special needs mom vlog/channel.
Well, aren’t you special? I should bow to you. Have a great day. I’ll definitely take everything you say to heart. I just quit and deleted all my socials. just kidding. Enjoy yourself.
Because I swallow dick like a snake eating an egg and if if I would’ve charged an entrance fee for my vagina, I’d be rich.
Maybe you just need a ring light but I have saggy skin (look up apron belly or c section shelf) saggy tits, stretch marks galore, that REQUIRE lingerie to cover. Yeah some men like that but I would be embarrassed to have that posted online for me so I fix it. I have short almost never painted nails because I play guitar, no make up, aging skin that I need eye cream, exfoliators, and good moisturizer for (regardless of what line of work.) You probably owned nail clippers and make up before hand. I did get the medium price range for the lighting and yeah that’s my personal choice, but I’m a perfectionist and would rather have medium $$ lighting than absolute garbage. So I got 2 neewer bicolor led panels instead of a crap ring light. I could’ve spent 300 on a ring light.
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Girl I just saw your booty and that’s a different level of real woman.
I do know what you’re talking about from what I’ve looked at on these Reddit subs, and I was happy to see how many comments and followers some of the mature/milf/bbw body types had. It definitely helped my confidence. I delete every picture that’s not perfect though or doesn’t meet my standard. I was like that with my art too.
It’s a shortcoming of mine to be a perfectionist.