I've been hearing across the board from folks more successful in picking my persona, sticking with it, and marketing the bejeezus out of it.

A super cool creator I met was telling me her thing is girl next door, borderline trad wife with a spicy side. She has a gorgeous and innocent face (she shows in content), a beautiful ring, and she says it overlaps with who she is.

I'm less sure of how to portray myself. It overlapping with who I am is important because I don't think it'd be too sustainable, enjoyable, or be seen as authentic otherwise.

I'm tall, slender, and I have an athletic grace to my body. My username is sveltegoddess which does fit my image very well. The goddess part sometimes makes people think 'Domme' which I have some interest in, but I'd feel quite constrained making that 100% my thing.

I'm a fairly nerdy grad student, so I think that could be something I try more of.

One thing I can't seem to figure out is if I should be "slutty" and open about these adventures of a 25 year old curious about myself, kink, and sexuality or if I should be more of an introverted, nerdy student who loves to show off. Sometimes I think the latter is best because some of my most loyal fans don't enjoy seeing me with others really.

So both sides are genuinely part of me, I just think there would be a benefit to exaggerating/ focusing in on one of those sides.

Any ideas for how to reframe this and get a bit further in building out my "product"?