Hello.

ME

Submissive male affair partner is probably not the most appetizing option when I assume most women in dead bedrooms want someone to just take charge for once. Same honey, same.

I'm 44m, happy, decades long committed, employed, father of youths and animals, left wing, who cooks, that has hobbies and goals that I like to think make me a well rounded individual. Tall, saltnpepper hairy, dadbod, with clean beard and half decent sense of style beyond flannel.

I'm not a wimpy pushover guy who weponizes incompotence. I just enjoy confident women who have high sex drives who know what they want in their sex life. I have a vanilla partner and I want kink. I consider myself a switch but I lean more submissive kink wise.

I like typical guy stuff Marvel, Anime, Movies, Scifi, I like to read but I rather spend my free time texting you. I collect stuff Funko's, comic books, Jordans, Scotch, experiences. I like to cycle, try and stay healthy, play soccer and other basic bitch stuff like Travel, shop, hike, go to concerts and enjoy music.

What I'm looking for

A domme would be amazing. A friend is more realistic.
A torrid Online affair full of talking/sexting/latenights/feelings/fun.

Like every post on here "not just looking for sex" but really I am. Don't get me wrong, I want a friend and a partner someone strong, funny, stable, intelligent but also sexually devious. I want to talk about anything and everything but I want to flirt and tease and play too. A lot.
Being honestly vulnerable to someone, enough to offer submission, is best with a deep meaninful connection. So of course I want that too.

Discreet, sexty fun chat but also meaningful and mundane chat. A domme to make me a better person inside and out.

I want to serve, get to know, and form a strong online relationship with a strong sexy woman.

A kinky playmate to match me.

Talk about your day, problems, dreams, and aspirations. Help each other meet them. Make me(us) into a better person through submission and control. Flirting, tasks and teasing throughout our day.

Looking for regular long term communication. I work shift but can communicate regularly I don't require 24/7 attention, I will not wilt from lack of appropriate adoration but daily check ins and updates are fun so shouldn't be overly avoided.

Pics and video clips are super important to me, but don't have to come right away. Discretion is priority.

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I prefer Telegram.