There are so many interesting kinksters on reddit. But just being into bdsm doesnt mean everybody fits together.
So I will try my best to describe what you would get yourself into and what I would expect from you.

What I am looking for: After almost 15 years in bdsm, I have a pretty good idea of what I like and what I dont like. I am not into roleplay. I dont like anyone pretending to be somebody else. I want you to be you. I dont like short things, or play session. I want to get to know you and to be able to push all your buttons. I dont like switcher and I am not into brats or pure DDlg relations. What I like are subs and slaves. I like girls who know their position. I am looking for a girl with this deep and intrinsic craving of being owned. Of serving her man. Pleasuring him. Devote all her sexuell energy to him. To make him proud. To follow his rules. To satisfy him. To please him. To make him happy. To become his good little girl. A true and natural submissive.

What I expect from you? To be honest, I dont expect much of you. You dont need to be experienced. You dont need to be a perfect sub already. All I expect from you is dedication. Devotion. To try your best. Being loyal and honest. Eager to learn. I dont care about ethnicity or your size. I do expect you to take care of yourself though. To try to be the best you can for me. I want you to be willing to try new things and to be open minded.

Kinks: I have a lot of kinks. So we will definitely share some of them. But to give you an impression. I am into orgasm control. Tease and denial. I love asses and I love spankings. So its not a big of a surprise that I do like anal as well. I like girls who like it rough. Who like to get used and abused. Like to get sexually humiliated. Who want to feel like an owned object. Who need rules and punishments. To be controlled and restricted. Who are willing to do whatever it takes. For me, BDSM is about psychology. Its about what is happing in your head. So you need to be able to talk about your feelings. Your kinks, your desires, your fantasies. I want to know how things made you feel. What they triggered inside of you. I want to know what is happeing inside your mind. I want to be in your head. I want to own you.

What you get: I am 39, 6 foot tall, well built and I am working out regularly. I have my own business, which means that there will be times when I am more available than others. I would consider myself a nice guy. Caring, empathetic, honest, loyal and funny. That doesnt mean that I wont be hard with you. I am very strict. A man of my word. There wont be any empty threats. If you misbehaved or failed a task, you will get punished. You will learn to follow the rules. To submit and to obey. But you are always allowed to speak up. To adress your concerns. To tell me about your sorrows. But there is a place and a time for it. .

If this made you interested, tell me a little bit about yourself and we will take it from there.