At the end of the day I just want someone cool to talk to. Maybe see a face light up with a smile. I don’t have set expectations, well, besides mutual respect.

Perhaps I’m naive. I believe that most don’t deliberately end up on here. That most are not only looking for some side action. Life is messy, I didn’t choose a disconnect. Just finding myself longing for something more. Maybe you feel the same and have a void, a need that isn’t being met or going through a rough time.

I can’t promise to meet that need, but I can attempt to. All anyone can hope for is a connection, mutual attraction and interest. If that isn’t there, then nothing gained and nothing lost.

About me: 36 yo white guy, married, no kids. Located in Pretoria, South Africa (GMT 2). On the introverted side, maybe a bit weird. Work in engineering. Into scuba diving, music & festivals, travel and so on. Average physically, lets just exchange pics it is easier that way. I will tell you that my body isn’t tattooed or pierced, but my soul is. If I could still rock long hair I would.

Some preferences: I’ll just mention these, they’re not hard limits. My age or older, my back hurts - you don’t get it if you are 21. You’re not just looking for a sexting partner. Preferably on the extroverted side since one introvert trying to carry a conversation seldom works. Fun and light hearted, otherwise it can to turn all doom and gloom. Physically I don’t have set ideals, will either find you attractive or not.

Obligatory I don’t wish to change your or my situation. We both have our lives and may not always be able to communicate, kindly just communicate disinterest instead of ghosting though.